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Looking for the Love of Your Life?
Our friend Corinne Blum helps people to connect their true authentic self and attract their soulmate.
Are you longing to find your Mr or Ms Right but keep on attracting Mr or Ms Wrong?
Men and women alike are finding themselves with a growing frustration over finding true love these days. Many of us are caught up with the idea that we have to wait for our perfect match to come. And that all we can do is hope and pray and wish for a bit of luck.
So how can we reclaim our power in finding love?
By taking responsibility and recognising the ways in which our own limiting beliefs keep us from receiving the relationship of our dreams.
Most of us carry the belief that we have to go out and find Mr or Ms Right. But all we have to do is remove the things that block them from finding us.
As Rumi beautifully wrote; “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
So what are some of the barriers that get in the way?
- Our thoughts about ourselves
- Our thoughts about men/women
- Our thoughts about what love and relationship is to us
Here’s an exercise to help you discover what your thoughts are in these three areas:
Take 10 minutes to sit down and write about your thoughts
- How you feel about yourself in your best and worst moments?
- What do you think and feel about men/women?
- And lastly, write about your experience of being in relationship and what the relationship of your dreams would look like.
Let it be a free flow of thoughts, memories, anything that comes into your mind is perfect. The goal is just to get your thoughts onto the page.
Then let it go and return to it later.
In the meantime notice what comes up for you. How did it feel to write these things down? How do you feel when you reflect on what you wrote? What can you learn from what you wrote?
Use these insights to guide you in attracting the love of your life.
For some exercises and great tips on manifesting your soul mate read “The Soulmate Secrets: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction” by Arielle Ford.
Or watch this video by Katherine Woodward Thomas on becoming magnetic to love.
